Books I like regarding my kink and relationship. In no particular order.
Getting her to be a Vanilla Dominatrix by Giles English. It's possible to get kink when your partner is vanilla and stays vanilla.
How to be a Roman Dominatrix by Giles English.
Look Into My Eyes by Peter Masters.
An erotic hypnosis guide.
Speak Ericksonian by
Neuro-linguistic programming, and conversational/covert hypnosis. Athena and Her Subject conversationally hypnotize each other without going through formal hypnotic inductions.
What Shamu Taught Me About Life, Love, and Marriage: Lessons for People from Animals and Their Trainers by
Mind Play: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis by Mark Wiseman. Title is self-explanatory.
The Mind Play Study Guide by Mark Wiseman.